The Woman Who Knows How

I want you to start seeing how powerful you are. Think of a moment when you thought of something you desired, and you released it, and it happened.  I’m sure it’s happened more than once. 

How did it feel to let go of needing to know exactly how things were going to happen? To stop worrying about not knowing everything and just allow things to come in? Because really, you have everything you need.

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Transcript

Tatiana Amico: 1:19

So before I get going with this incredible episode, I just want to give you a visual of how this is going down right now. And it really does tie into the topic for today. For this episode, I am in my kids' bunk bed. So I'm in the bottom bunk. It's my daughters who six. I am surrounded by. Really pretty pink and like this blue pillow with fringe and there's unicorns everywhere. I'm like tucked in into a unicorn blanket. And if she knew she'd probably kick my butt, but. You know, I have a toddler sleeping in my bad right now where it's just where I actually usually record my podcast episodes. And the rest of the family is downstairs watching a football game and I'm on my phone recording this like the first time I had a podcast, my first podcast, the hot mama movement. Ooh. It was really good. I had like all of this equipment, I was so obsessed with the needing to know exactly how to record the podcast episode and everything that I needed to do it. Man, like how much energy that took up versus just like, let's get it done. Let's get it out there. Let's make the fricking move on the podcast. So I knew that going into to this new podcast where I could just use my fricking phone and I have someone that, this incredible team helping me just doing all the edits and everything. Oh my goodness. Such a different vibe, so different. And it's amazing. And I'm laying in a, really comfy. Unicorn bad. Sorry. Anyway. All right. I am actually really giddy about this one, this episode, because it's one of my favorite things to say. I wonder how many of you know what I'm about to say? Um, one of my favorite things to say, and to help others do. And I was just thinking, I might even have some fricking t-shirts made that say, fuck. How I'm gonna say it again. Fuck the, how. I'm going to give you a story that just happened for me. I had this thought I had this desire, those of you that were in my free experience, desire codes. This is it, right. We listen to our desires. We feel these impulses. We have these thoughts and we activate it. We activate these desires in us and they happen. So I had this thought, this desire, Hey, I want to go to Sedona. Thought came through. I'm like, okay, cool. Yeah. I want to go. Awesome. I have this desire. I recognize it. It was like a few weeks after that. My mom is like, Hey, I'm going to go to Sedona. Do you want to come long story short, I'm getting a free trip to Sedona. Okay. I wasn't like, I need to know how I'm going to get to Sedona and I have to save and I have to do all of this stuff, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah. I was like, yeah, I want to go to Sedona. It's going to happen. Cause I want to go and then boom, it shows up for me and I'm getting this trip for free. Awesome. Awesome. Awesome. So I just, before we begin, I want you to take a moment and think of a time and you could pause this if you want, or I'm planting the seed for you. So you start to do this. And this goes along with that episode that I talked about evidence, I don't remember which episode it was, but definitely go listen, go find it. But. Think of moments. Think of experiences, when you have thought of something that you wanted, that you desired and you just kind of let it go and it happened or it happened and it was even better. So think of at least one moment, I guarantee you have way more than that. I want you to start seeing how powerful you are, right. And the magic that happens when you let go of needing to know exactly how it's going to happen or stressing out about it or any of that kind of crappy energy. Right. Take a moment right now and do that. You could pause this or just be open to having these memories flooded and take note of them, you know, write them down or just like really anchor them in, in some ways, celebrate yourself, do whatever, but I really want you to see what happens when you say, fuck the, how. So when I first decided to go all in, on my business, this was around 2014. Yeah. The beginning of 2014. And I just remember this feeling that came through for me. And it was like, it's go time. Like you got to stop fiddle farting around. This is ridiculous. You know what? You're here to do. You're ready for this. You're capable. Let's fricking go. And I did. I just showed up. My business has all been online and I just wish showing up online consistently. I was sharing what I felt called to share. Like I just listened to myself. When I think back on this, I'm like, oh my gosh. Like I just shared what I felt called to share. I shared my message. I shared my office. I just, I was sharing my journey and again, consistently, consistently, consistently, and it grew really quick. It grew really, really fast and it felt effortless. I hit six figures, like so fast. And again, when I think about it, it blows my mind how effortless it was and how fast it happened. So here's how I wasn't all up in my head. I wasn't obsessed with needing to know all the strategies I wasn't questioning. If, how I was doing things was wrong. I wasn't looking at others and comparing, and I wasn't surrounded by all the noise on the internet of how things should be done or like, which guru's way is what right or wrong. But then I started to let that all in. When, where I was wasn't enough. And I was so obsessed with rank and money thinking that I wasn't doing enough or that I was wrong in what I was doing. And I see this now so much in others, right. What we go through is incredibly powerful. I was just, oh man, I was just sharing this earlier today. With someone where I said like, I mean, I've, I've been through so much, I've been through so many challenges. I've been through so much pain just throughout my whole life. And although there's this part of me, that's like, oh man, I wish I would've known. Like, I wouldn't be who I am without any of that. I wouldn't be able to really share everything that I do and help women in the way that I do had I not gone through that because I could read all the books and I could like learn all the things, you know, go to school and like learn all these things. But. I mean, the experience is where the magic happens. Like this is where I can help my clients really get through things by sharing how I got through them. Right. So fricking powerful. So I can see that. So I'm here for it. And I'm also all about helping others not have to go through that. Right. So I see it so much in. Literally most, I mean, most of my clients come to me after experiencing something similar where it's just like thinking they're not doing enough obsessed with the, how all of this stuff. And we really get to work on that. And again, I am all about learning new things and I love strategy. It's very important. I actually see this is a missing piece for so many, by the way, I have a bundle of programs, my aligned six-figure business bundle. It includes my aligned AAF offers program. Um, I have another program in there. It's all about showing up powerfully on social media to attract your aligned. People. And the third one is all about launching and launching in a way that is like you write that you enjoy doing. And I mean, that's all, that's the only way to fucking do it. Right? So it's for online business ladies and network marketers, and it is the strategy. Of course, of course, of course the inner work and these six programs are game changers. It's like the best shit out there on really how to build that aligned six-figure business and keep it going. Right. So the link to that is in the. Of this episode, obviously, if you're like, I don't need programs, I want more intimate, more, um, guidance, more support like that more one-on-one you really want to be in my world and have the conversations and so that I can actually see what's going on and right. Be in there with you, fill in the gaps, all the things. Obviously that would be my group mentorship. Or one-on-one with me for that. You just got to send me a DM on the socials. Okay. I'm a Tatiana Amico on Facebook and on Instagram. All right. So again, yes, learning new things and strategy it's important, but what's more important is our energy behind it. So what place are we coming from when we are learning new, new things, right? It's like this desire to learn new things versus this. Because I'm not enough for what I'm doing isn't enough, or I don't know, or any of that crap. Right. Which I get it, I get it. I get it. So again, I started getting all up into like, what do I do, but what do I do and how do I do it? Like Google was my B AF AF, and I was in all the entrepreneur spaces. I was getting into all the, how to program. By the way, most of them saying the same exact things, I probably have like three Instagram courses and they all say the same freaking thing, same with sales and everything else. Right. So it was like this like need, like I'm missing something. What am I missing? Why am I not growing Bubba, my energy behind that? Can you feel it's like very frantically the energy behind. It was very frantic and fear-based and like, again, I was missing something or I wasn't enough. So that energy behind. So often this, but I need to know the, how comes from fear, because like, I need to know the exact, how to steps, but the fear is there. The limitations are there. So it's easy to not know how right. It's, it's easy to not see what the, how is. And it's just your brain keeping you safe from actually making a move. So again, this, like, but I need to know how, and you could, you could hear it. You could sense it in me, right. That. But I don't know how it's your brain keeping you safe from actually making a move or being open to what the next step is and making a move on that next step, because your brain, your mind will focus on past problems and anticipate future problems. Like I gotta get it. All right. That turns into I gotta get it. All right. So, oh my God. I need to know the, how. So, what I do for my clients is help them have the awareness around that be open to their best next step, recognize what they already have. Why would they already have to make whatever it is that they desire happen, happen and, or recognize if there actually is something else that would help them and to begin asking questions and being in the energy of calm and desire. So all that they meet. Shows up for them then of course, to be able to make the moves, to make the moves, to make the moves. I was on a call with my client the other day just came up. She's like thinking of how, how can I make more sales, but I want you to know the energy around it. Wasn't like, oh, could I make more sales? Like my business. How can I call him more women? How can I help more women? How can I serve more women? I know that my programs are the shed. I know that my offers are the shit. How can I get this out to more women? That was the vibe of it. Right? Idea showed up for her. She listened, she took action and boom, three sales. So it's being able to hear the ideas and act on them. And I even said it to her because I want to make sure she's angriness in. Right. It's like, do you see what just happened? You were asking how you can help more women, how you could serve more women, how you could get your incredible offers out into the hands of women who could use that. The idea came through and you acted on it. Boom. Right. I had another client who came to me after like the, all the business coaches, all the programs like jumping around from this thing to that thing, to that thing, we tapped into what was really going on. And it was this feeling of this deep desire to evolve her brand and her ideal client and her offer. So we got to. And the, how was just really her getting behind the new identity, her new identity, sticking to it, not dipping, and then calling in our next level client. And she did. And as of now recording this, she has five women in her newest offer. Boom. Then another client, I just got to share this because I want you to see how this works. Right. Another client comes to me because she just knows that there's more. She actually binged. She had never been in my world before binged on this podcast came to me and was like, I got to work with you more. And she was, she was asking about my programs and she's like, no, I don't think I'm going to do those. And then I offered her my, uh, my group mentorship and she jumped on it. Like, how cool is that? Right? So she listened to herself. Something was activated her. She was asking for, she doesn't know it when you're listening to this, like, this is actually cool for you to recognize, like you knew that there was something more you're like, I want it, I desire it. I showed up for you. She didn't, you took the action. She took the action on it. Right? So again, she knew she was, there was more, she could feel it inside. She's in network marketing. It just wasn't really fulfilling her. What I saw in her. Was that she wasn't actually using her true gifts. I could feel it in women when there's just more in them, these incredible, I call it your unique brilliance is inside of you. And what I love to do is bring that out. You really, really, really fully f-ing own that. So you're sharing that with the world and selling, getting paid for that, selling it, getting paid for that. Right. So she kept wanting to know, but how do I make a biz? Like how, what do I do? Right. And what we have done is just really dig in, open her up to her true gifts and to her, to her message and to be able to show up in these. And now the offer comes and I caught her. She's like still say, but how, even though she has it all, and I had to say, listen, you have it. All right here, you have it all. So it's the inner game. It's the inner game. Now she's showing up now, which is awesome. So just take a moment and ask yourself, like, do I keep needing to know how is my mind keeping me from making the moves? One of the most powerful things that we can do. Is just make a move it's through that, that the Clare more clarity comes and confidence comes. It's like you make a move. Okay. I'm okay. I'm good. Nothing happened. I'm still alive. And I'm getting closer and closer and closer to wherever the heck I'm going. And again, that clarity, that's where the clarity is really going to come. When you take action. That's also where you're going to notice where you have resistance and where you got to get to work. But if you keep sitting back and I don't know how to do. The clarity isn't going to come. The confidence isn't going to come. Actually confidence will go down even more. So let's make a move. So I'd love for you to get clear on your next move. And you're going to do this by quieting the noise, quieting the chatter in your mind. Maybe even you got to step away from seeing like everything and fricking social media, looking at all this, just consuming all the content. Quiet, the noise, listening to what your inner guide is telling you. Really listen, allow it to come in and make the move. So having the awareness around this ready, you get a great idea. You have a vision you may even start to make moves, but then you begin to feel stuck. You begin to feel stuck when you get to the end of what you quote unquote know to do. Right? And then maybe it's freaking out about the how, but how do I get from here all the way to there? Cause I'm guessing you have a big vision, you have some big desires and it can be easy to be like, oh my gosh, but how, like, how do I even get from here to there, but that can lead to just staying stuck and not even moving. So it's about chilling with knowing, like truly when I say knowing again, that means it's, you're certain you trust. So with the knowing that you'll get inspired or reinspired, that you'll see everything that you need, everything will show up for you. The insights, the ideas they'll come. But you have to be able to really listen to trust, to have the faith and to make the move, to make the actual move. And this doesn't mean pushing when you're pushing, it literally feels heavy. Like you're trudging through mud, right. And even trying to control. So when we're in this, I got to know the, how I got to know the, how that's controlled. That's trying to control everything and it can feel frustrating and it leads to losing the fun and the joy in it. No, no, no, no. Like I'm here for the fun. Yes. The excitement, the joy. And this doesn't mean that there aren't going to be challenges and stuff like that. Right. But I mean, let's have some fricking fun, you know, so it's noticing those feelings. Until an out, maybe it's go out and do something. Go live, like, go live your life. Get reinspired start to think of why you began in the first place, your desires, your vision. Get back into the vibes and the energy and trust. Trust, trust, trust, trust, trust that the next steps will appear for you. That the next step will appear for you. But remember you got to choose to chill out. Cause fear will come in and it'll say, hustle, hustle, hustle, hustle. He got to know this, God know that, then you're not aligned you got to choose to chill that mind to get back into the energy of really listening. And it's like, I trust a while. I trust that it'll work out or it would be even better than I could've imagined. I trusted the ideas will come. I trust I will be led to watch something, to listen to something, to read something, to journal on something, something will happen for me. Exactly what I need will come through for me. So it's asking for the inspiration, the help, the resources. if you're feeling confused or overwhelmed, allowing yourself to step back to chill and then to move, the clarity will come from this, the clarity and the confidence will come from this, or even more clarity and confidence. So being intentional instead of acting in fear or scarf, None of this, like, oh my God is going to all fall apart. I have to do this, this, this, and this. We don't want to be in that space. We don't want to be showing up from that, from that space, from that energy. So it's deep trust, wisdom, and choice. Like this is strength. This is power. This is when you're in command versus needing to control releasing attachment. And when you're not controlling, I get so behind this, right? When you're not controlling, you're naturally opening up yourself up. You're naturally open to receive more. You naturally open yourself up to receive more. So you're open to more flow, not that force or that. Not controlling by needing to know the, how meeting, the, how that comes from fear, disconnect from trust and insecurity or not trusting that you are deserving or that it's possible to have all that. And listen, when you're attached to a certain way to a certain outcome, you think that there's only one way for it to show up and you feel you got to control, but when you are in command, you trust and you make intentional choices that brings it to you. And it can be in various other ways, again, that are even better feel even better, make you more money, whatever it is. So what would happen if you let go of the need to know exactly how can you see all that you do already? Can you see all that you already do know? And have, can you get honest with yourself about why you're holding yourself back? Can you be open to seeing your next move? Are you willing to trust it when it comes through and to take the action on. Again, are you willing to trust it when it comes through and to take the action on it? I'd love to know what comes up for you with all of this. Send me a message on Facebook or Instagram and let me know.