The Woman Who Rises Up

Last year was full of initiations for me and I’m seeing the results of the work.  Last year smacked me around to make me grow into the woman I had to be to receive the level-ups that I desired.  I won’t lie, it was hard.  

When you’re willing to show up no matter what, do the work, own the ebbs and flows of entrepreneurship, you’re going to rise. This internal work is about releasing old identities and stepping into new identities and new beliefs.

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Tatiana Amico: 1:17

So I recorded this episode the other day, and then I was chatting with a client this morning and I was like, oh my gosh, I have to add this end because it's just really important to understand that whenever we think that we might be quote unquote, like going back. And what I mean, going back, like, let's say, you were moving in, your income was growing and then all of a sudden it kind of like dipped back or you're working out and do an amazing, and then maybe you got sick and you had to, you know, chill out for a little bit. Or like me, I was working out doing amazing. And then I got LASIK and I had to, I mean, I had to chill out. A couple of weeks, and then I got sick and it was more, but it's like, what if, what if we see this as part of the path and it's actually helping you and it's actually helping you. And as you listen to this episode, I want you to remember this and can you live with this belief or something that feels really good for you? This belief has helped me incredibly helps me get through all that. And it's that everything is working for me. Everything is working for you, right? Have a perception like that. Have a belief like that. Click a knowing in you that everything is, and you'll act from that place. And you'll act from that place. You'll see things very differently, who you be will be very, very differently. I, as an example, I got really sick. I had the coronavirus. A couple of months ago. And with that, like, I have never felt that sick before in my life. And right before I had really like next level than my workouts, it was really, really great. And I mean, I was out, I couldn't move my body. That's really hard for me. That's really hard for me. I really enjoy exercising. I really enjoy moving my body. And, you know, I went back when I could and slowly, slowly. And let me tell you, since then, I have had the most like epic workouts, epic. And then again, I told you I got LASIK and then got sick and it's like, no, like I know I have built myself up for this. I have built myself up for this. All of the challenges that I have gone through have led to this. I was saying this back in 2020, I remember thinking to myself, holy shit, everything that I have done for me, all the work that I have put in has led me to be able to get through. Has led me to be able to get through this, to work through even bigger challenges. So can you live with that? Can you know that everything that you have done, it's actually working for you, it's still there. It's still a part of that. And it's helping you get to where you really, truly desire to go wherever that is. There is no, they're like, you're going to keep growing. If you're listening to me right now, like you're a woman that desires continuous expansion and growth and all of that, right? Like we're not stopping. There is no, there it's a fricking incredible, incredible journey with no ending. We're just continuing to go. But can you believe, can you believe that. Everything is a gift. There's a lesson in everything. And you're taking that with you. So asking this is why it's so important to know what it is that you're truly, truly, truly desiring for yourself, how you want to feel, how you want everything to look and know that if it's a certain way, for example, for me, Peace and joy and, and true freedom to get there. It's not necessarily going to mean that every single day is that way. I might have to go through some things in order to get there. Last year, I realized that I, man, I uncovered some deep stuff. I uncovered some deep stuff and I was, I was operating from that place. I was over-giving. I was overdue. And I had to do some work, so no, I didn't hit a certain income level, but I did the work that I needed to do in order to have that income level and feel amazing and feel at peace and feel fulfilled or. I worked on it. I integrated, I finally hired long-term help in my business, which is something that I couldn't even, I couldn't do it. I couldn't get myself to do it. It's like I couldn't let go of certain things. I was so afraid to do that. I had to work on that. And what does that lead to peace, ease, freedom, fulfillment, all of that stuff. Right. So go into this episode, knowing this, that it's not that. Quote, unquote, going back, falling back, let go of that perception and then step into the perception of this. Everything is working for me, or again, come up with a belief that feels really, really good for you and is going to help you when you are in those moments when you are in those moments. All right. Now, listen to the episode. Enjoy. I love you. Hello. Hello. Welcome to another episode of own it with Tatiana Amico. When I was chatting with my podcast guru on a call, just, you know, she was helping me gain some clarity on what the season would be about and something that really came through. And I remember just having this feeling coming through me. This is going to be an incredibly like real, raw, authentic season. I mean, I'm very, very real and raw and authentic in general especially with my podcast episodes. And if you're ever in any sort of like live experiences with me, or obviously like my clients, they know what's up because I am constantly sharing everything that I'm going through. One of the things that I feel is incredibly powerful with having a mentor that is steps ahead of you is to hear how she gets through the limitations and her own challenges. And, you know, it's not just about what did you post or what did you it's like? No, like, I, I know when I'm working with someone, I want help with them seeing what, like what I can't see. Right. So I could fill in that. But then also I want to know, like, how do you get through these things? How do you, how do you shift your energy? How do you do this stuff? Like that is so big for me, that has been huge for me. And that is what I bring to the table with my clients. And that's one of the things that has always been said, like Tasi, I freaking love how you just share everything that you're going through and you've gone through. It's like, I, I love doing it. I'm even getting comments about these episodes and how I'm doing that. So this episode is going to, I'm going to bring it even more because I was talking to her about, you know, manifestation and there's so much stuff out there with manifestation. And if I'm being completely honest, I was getting very, very, very annoyed with everything because a lot of what I see is very like fluffy and. Yay. Like, yeah, you could have it all in Bubba and like, I'm here for it. I do that stuff too, but I also really want women to know what it takes and what you may go through. Because if not, when you're going through it, it's very easy to think that there's something wrong with you. Right? Why is this not happening? Why is it not happening faster? Like questioning yourself. And for me, It just leads to stopping and not doing anything. And I don't want to see that for anyone. I don't want to see that for anyone. I have been there where I just, I didn't move on my desires. I didn't think that they were possible. I was in this constant state of what's the point of me even dreaming about anything or setting goals or anything. Cause they're not going to happen. Like I didn't want to disappoint myself. I literally remember thinking that to myself one time. And one of my jobs, like in an office and I was so miserable and it's like, I wouldn't even allow myself to think of what was possible outside of that, because I didn't, I didn't believe that I could have it. So I want you to know where I've come from with that. I'm here to tell you, like we do the damn thing. And when you're in my world, we do the damn thing. Like we go through. We go deep we're we're not messing around. We're not doing surface level stuff. I'm helping you literally shift into new identities, new beliefs, new belief systems, like a whole new fricking world. That's what I'm here for. Like, let me know. Give me a hell. Let's just say like, hell yeahs, nod your head, fist, bump, shake your ass, whatever you want to do. I can't see you, but you know, if you feel, man, there's like a whole new world, all Latin. Oh my gosh. I love that movie when I was little anyway. So what this really takes now, the other day I had. Uh, brand new client come into my world and this woman joined one-on-one and she paid me in full. It was a five figure investment and she paid it in full. Now I have in the past had days where I made more than that, than what I received from one incredible. I've had days where I had like multiple transactions that were more right. But this was different because it was one woman. And it's, I know, wait, we can see all over the place. Like I made this, like there's celebrations, every era, which is awesome. But again, we don't know what's behind that. We don't know what it takes to even be able to receive that amount of. Like to be able to receive that amount of money. So for me, first of all, I want to say this eight years ago, I also had a memory come up. I think the day before, of course, right. This, I love how this all happens for me. I had this memory come up and I had just concluded. When I first started my health coaching business, I had zero belief that anyone would pay me for my services. And that that came out as, oh, I'm just gonna, like, I'm going to do this program for free just to see if there's any interest. And, you know, I just want to help people, like this is the stuff that I was telling myself really. I was just did not think that I was worthy and I didn't think that anyone would pay me, like, who am I to get paid to help people with their health. Right. So I did a six week program. I don't remember how many women, I think maybe there were like eight or 10 women in there for free. I did it. Years later in one transaction, I made more in that transaction that I did in over three months at my last job, the one that laid me off, I was sitting on my couch still in my sweaty workout clothes because my two year old would not let me change mom life. Watching her paint, getting the pain all over herself and all over the floor. And I receive this money from this woman for my services. She trusted in me to help her get to where she desires to go. And she trusted in herself. And I trusted in her capabilities to make a decision like that, to make that big move and show up for herself. And I trusted myself that I could help her. Seeing how far I've come to be able to even do something like that. And I mean, it started with zero, but then it was, you know, I think I was charging like$75 a month for health coaching. And that scared the poop out of me again, I'm like, I would be so afraid to be like, it's$75. Will you pay me like shaking as I'm saying it, right? Like, will you pay me$75? I mean, even$25 for a grocery store tour, I was with. Three freaking hours. I was petrified to ask for 25 freaking dollars, right. It's I started from there and then it was like even$140 for the challenge packs for the MLM that I am with. Right. Look how far I've come, but let me tell you. I would have collapsed time. If I would have been doing this work, I would have been able to be asking for what I am now sooner. Okay. So this is the power of doing that work and getting the guidance with that, getting the guidance with all of that. Okay. So also it took. Consistently showing up in my message, in my purpose and sharing my offers consistently. I feel like I talk about this all the time, but like consistently showing up in my message in my purpose and sharing my offers, even when I was scared to even when I was like, no, one's going to pay me even when it was, who am I to even put this out there? I shared it anyway. And then obviously that consistent internal expansion doing that, uncover the uncomfortable things all the freaking time. That's how I was able to also write a book, do this podcast, like do the free experiences that I do show up, do lives, whatever it might be, share, fricking these stories, share all of this stuff, right. Working through the fears and the limitations, making my own big ass fricking investments in myself. And the thing is, is that with new and bigger things show up at each level. So really understanding that piece of it. I'm not here to just like, oh yeah, I got here and I'm good now. No, like we keep going. We keep going. So it's the kind of work right? That I had no idea what happened eight years ago. I had no idea. And even before then, when I was sitting in my office in the, at that job, I don't think anything is possible. I will be here for the rest of my life. Right? So the work on myself that I had no idea it would be doing and then doing things that I never thought I would do or believe that I could the kind of work that gets you to be the woman who goes from feeling so freaking afraid and so unworthy to charge for her services to being. This is that identity work, the woman who is able to receive the amount of money that I did right from that one woman from that one woman. So it was knowing I'm worthy, knowing what I have done for myself and for others, knowing that my aligned clients are out there and desire to pay me and love to pay me. They're like, oh my literally she's like, oh my God, I'm sorry. Like, boom, thank you here for it right here for it. And when I say knowing, when I say knowing it doesn't mean like, oh yeah, I read that thing or I heard that thing. Yes. I know that it's like certainty. This is who I am. This is who I be. This is who I be. So this is about embodying being the embodiment of the woman who is. Who is able to show up and to keep showing up no matter what, even, even when things seem like they are not working or they are falling apart or they're falling apart, have you ever had that happen? I can't tell you how many times that's happened for me. Um, you know, being a woman that asks for what she wants knows she is worthy as. And that she deserves it and that she is able to receive it being a powerful receiver. And when I talk about owning it, like this is owning it. So listen, there's going to be abs and flows. We don't see this a lot, but often personally, what I'm seeing. All the celebrations of like, yes, I made this month, this month and then this and this year, and this year I made this much. And then the next year I made this and it's like, always going up and up again, going to be real with you. Not the case for me. I have had, and this is scary to share, right? Because a part of me is like, if I share this, why would anyone hire me? You know what the. That I want to work with is going to be like, fuck yes, sharing. What's real. She's sharing that. She gets through it. She shares it. She shows up no matter what she keeps going after it that's my woman. Right. So I've had that where, you know, when I've shifted, what I was doing, my income went down when. Was gaining, you know, my own expansion going through my own expansion. I mean, this happened last year. I remember beginning of the year, like, yes, this is going to be the year that I make$500,000 a Bubba. And that it was like, whoa, I got fricking smacked all over the universe. It was like, boom, boom, boom, boom. You know who you want to be? You know who you have to be in order to make that 500 K here in order to make a seven figure. I'm going to just show you what you gotta do and who you gotta be. Right. I'm going to show you, I'm going to give you all the opportunities that you need in order to become that woman. And I can't, it's 5 55 as, as, uh, as I'm saying that now I have chills. Like I had to, I had to show up anyway, I had to continue on. I had to like lead my fricking self through all of it, through all of it. Now it kind of feels like. I can't even like tell you all those, those challenges in those moments, because all I can really see and feel as me on the other side of it. So that's what happens when we continue to do that work. Right? So the abs and the flows let's own the frickin abs and the flows let's own the dips in the income, but feeling safe and knowing that you're okay, no matter what that you're going to get through and shit, you're going to ride. Right. And if you need to go back and listen to episode two of season three again, or if you haven't listened, like definitely go listen to that. Safety is key and especially around money, I'm going to be getting more into that. And especially, you know, with my clients, cause I had a massive realization today, so I'm going to integrate the shit out of that. And then I'm going to be sharing that obviously with my clients. Just knowing this right with the abs and the flows and the dips, and we're rising up, we're rising up if we're, if we're actually doing the work, if we're actually doing that internal work that I talk about, we're releasing old identities, right? We're we're declaring what it is that we desire. We're putting it out there. Well, in order to be that woman, we must step into new identities. We must step into new beliefs. Into that whole new world. So we're going to be releasing some stuff and sometimes that release can lead to these, you know, these abs or these depths or whatever, but it's knowing that it's, it's not bad, right. It's not bad. It's okay. It's okay. And we can feel sad and we can feel frustrated and allow an angry and you know, whatever emotions come through, this is something that's really big for me is just allowing it all to come through, not shoving it down, like let it come through there. Shame if there's guilt, anything like that, like let's bring it to the surface. So we know what's there and we can work on getting into some desired feelings, how we really desire to feel. And then moving from there, moving from that place. So just knowing that stepping into a new identity, it's going to take some work and we're not here for the fluffy shit, right? At this level to the woman that I'm speaking to that is desiring so much more it's time to recognize that it's so much more than some like webinar on how to have like the 10 K month. Right. This takes being able to explain. To activate the codes that are inside of you, the desire codes that are inside of you to make it happen, to release energy blocks, to step into these new, powerful energies of the woman that you must be to have all that it is that you desire. So right now I'm recording. I'm in this incredible sweet, like I'm looking at spirally. I have two levels. I'm looking at spirally stairs, which they're fricking cheetah print on the stairs. I mean, hello, there's a cheetah print rug. Like I'm here for it. The whole wall is windows overlooking. I dunno some, you know, trees and shit. And then there's a jacuzzi overlooking at all just yesterday. I had a moment of like effet. I had looked at numbers for something and I'm like, what is even the point? Like, this is, this is the chatter. This is the noise that started going on in my head. I was like, what is happening? I don't understand, like, you know, it was just like that spiral of bullshit, but I had to get it out and I cried. I yelled. If I'm being honest, I lost my shit on my children. Who, this is what happens sometimes, right? When we, when we start to go there, when something affects us like that, we may lose it on other people. And I just had to catch myself and apologize, and then I went boxing. So I can move all that energy. I felt so much better when I came home, I woke up this morning with just new clarity and confidence. And the thing is, as I knew that I would, because I have, before I have that. As per the last episode, I have that evidence. I'll have those moments, but I know that I'm going to rise back up and I know that magic is on the other side. I know what's on the other side of that. I've done it before. I had been wanting to, I was just, I was feeling like I really needed to get away. I needed to be honest, to get away from my kid out of my house, away from my children. It was like hard for me to think. And it was like, nah, it wasn't the kind of like, let me just go to a coffee shop or something. Like, I hate doing that shit anyway. It was like no tattoo. You need to like go away for a night. You need space. And it needs to feel really fricking good. And I happened to find this hotel. There's a whole story about. And they had these incredible suites and I'm like, boom, done booked it. I have childcare I'm just so grateful for everyone around me that supports the shit out of me and I'm here and I'm doing this right. So I went from yesterday where I was like, fuck this to here I am. And to be able to record this episode for you to be able to record this episode, I got here just in time to recognize that there was a spa right on the one floor that I'm on. I get there. Do you happen to have anything? Do you happen to have anything today? She's like, yes, we actually do right now, a body wrap. Alright, Kemi, and let's do this. Right? So in those moments, in those moments and woman, again, I get it in those moments. What do you do? Who are you? And I will say this always no judgment, no judgment with what's coming through. Allow it to come through asking how can I see this differently? How can I move through this? What is going to show up for me, I'm open to the guidance. I'm willing to see. I'm willing to see what's there. I'm willing to see possibility. I'm willing to really listen to my true, authentic self. I'm willing to step into my authentic power. What lens might I be looking through right now? Is this past stuff coming up? For me, what I say, I was like, what does Tati on a fucking AMECO think believe and do sitting with that, not needing to know the answer right away, but knowing that the answers will come.'cause they always do. And I am, oh, he's guided and I'm so open and available for that guidance. And I know that I'm powerful and I know that I'm a grown ass empowered woman who leads herself. And I got this. Can you step in to that?