OWN IT w/ Tatiana Amico
Welcome to Own It - the podcast - with Tatiana Amico!! Tatiana is an Intuitive Business Coach and best-selling author who concentrates on helping impact driven women unlock their potential, create offers that sell, attract aligned-dream clients, and build a business that has them lit up inside!How? By teaching them how to OWN IT! With each episode, Tatiana is going to take you on an adventure. Buckle up and get ready because she goes full throttle in episode 1! Each episode after that only enhances in speed. When you are done listening, you are going to be realize there is a reason you were put on this earth, and be ready to make the BIG impact you came here to make !! Are you ready to OWN IT?
OWN IT w/ Tatiana Amico
The Woman Who Is Limitless
We need to be open to possibility and potential. Society tries to limit us in all kinds of ways, consciously or subconsciously. The societal definition of “success” has been shown as directly related to working our asses off, never seeing our families, too old for this, parenthood makes you too tired for that, on and on and on.
We show up because we go after our dreams no matter what. We are open to possibility and potential, allowing ourselves to dream. Notice how you see things you’ve never seen before once you allow yourself to expand.
Being able to really see comes after going through some stuff. We are given powerful opportunities and they’re not always pleasant, but they allow us to grow. You’ll begin to know what’s possible, and after that you can’t limit yourself.
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To reignite your powerful vision and get very intentional focused and grounded into it, taking the aligned action on goals and desires that you really want and making those moves now having the support to guide you through and to work on any of that sabotage and shit that. Because as I've said, your brain will do all it can to give you from going big. There are limited spots available. So DM me on Facebook or Instagram for your spot. And listen, the first five women who join get an intensive with me. This call alone will completely change your business and your life. And as of the time that I am recording, Three spots are already filled. So send me a DM on Facebook or Instagram ASAP for more on everything that you get. If you're needing to know all of that, just go to Tatiana, amico.com for all the details. But if you're like, yeah. Yes, let's do this. I want this, I desire this let's make the moves. Just shoot me a message on Instagram or Facebook. I am at Tatiana Amico in both of those places. Hey woman, how are you? So before I get into this episode, I just want to start with a story of what went down for me today. I was chilling here in my room, in my bed where I do most things, and I was coming up with what I was going to talk about today in this. And I was just like, my brain was all over the place I had this to do. I'm also mid having women joined my new incredible six week group mentorship, my family and I are going away for a few days. This week. I've been working with my. Social media manager who's oh my gosh. One of the best decisions I ever made in my life, she's helping me so much. Um, but we're doing a lot and we had an incredible conversation. Yesterday, so I was still buzzing from that. So I just had a lot going on and I had this moment where. Like, I'm not, I'm not going to sit here and try and force anything. Right. I'm not going to sit here and force anything. I could tell that that's what was happening. And I never want anything to come off from that energy, especially not my podcast, because I know the magic of what comes through for me, for my podcast. And I know how it it's out there. It's out there. Right? Like people find it and they hear it. And it's very, very important for me that I show up. And energy, a very specific energy for this. So I said, you know what, I'm going to take a minute. Actually, I'm going to go for a drive. For me, I know things that light me the eff up. I know what happens when I take myself on a drive. And especially when it's sunny out, it was so beautiful today. Sunny out. And I know that I'm going to go by myself, no kids side note let's own the fact that we can love our families and also want time for ourselves. I'm here for it. I travel alone a lot for myself for my own expansion of my own growth. And anyway, I knew that I wanted to do that. So I was like, I'm going to go for a drive. And I started thinking it would be so cool. I would really like to go for this drive and have a cold brew. Okay. Oh, milk and lavender syrup. And I was just thinking about it. And then I'm like, well, where am I going to drive? And I started looking for, we're going to, it's called the great Wolf lodge. It's an indoor water park and I have my bathing suit and I wanted a pair of. Cover-up pants. Right? Couldn't find any anywhere except for target. And one that is not near me had one. I was like, Ooh, that would be great. That, that gives me this opportunity to go for this drive, right? Well, the one said that they were out of that and then no shit. My husband went out and he comes home and he walks in and I look, he has a cold brew with oat milk and lavender syrup in his hand for me. I did not say anything to him. And then I look at my phone and I get the ding from target saying, oh, we have this one available at this other location. Like, hello, thank you. Like talk about rapid manifestation. Right, I asked for it, it showed up for me. Boom. So I went and I took this drive right. I pumped my beats. If you have Spotify, I have a mix on there called Tatiana's dance party. Actually, I can link it in the show notes. It's really good. It's very sexy vibey. And I was just driving, listening to that and I could just feel my head like massive chills, like buzzing. I was buzzing. I was buzzing so much was coming through for me. Like I knew what I was feeling so good. And I had this moment of thinking. I've become so powerful in my gifts on a whole other level over the past year, especially just with all the work that I've done, it's uncovered a lot of my gifts, like the way that I'm able to connect with my clients, the way that I'm able to channel shit for my clients and to. Feel and see things like I never have before is so incredible. Like for me and for others, it's just really, really cool. And I remember about a year and a half ago, I was working with a mentor and on, I think it was like maybe our first call. She said to me, she's like you, there is something there. Like you have massive amounts of power in you. And I was like, oh yes, I knew it. It's like, I always knew it. I always knew it, but I didn't allow myself to go there. I didn't allow myself to go there. And I did. I decided to, and having this all come out, but I share this with you because the magic of having someone see your potential and say that to you. Is everything. And that's literally one of the biggest pieces that I do with my clients, because I can feel the moment that I speak to a woman there's so much in you. I could see it. I could feel it. Let's bring it the fuck out. I love it. So. So that happened. And then I was driving and I just, I just kept going and going and going. And I was just following wherever I decided to go, whether it was left or right, or straight or whatever. And the last turn that I made, I ended up going down this road and I looked to my left and there's two deer and they're really close to a human. And I was like, what? So I turned around and I go pull up really, really slow. And I get out of the car and I'm like, I'm experiencing this. I'm experiencing these incredible, incredible animals being all up near me. And it was so amazing. And it was just like the perfect ending to this decision for me to go for that drive to let go of. The having to get down and do what I needed to do and listen to myself and go for this drive. So this is just a reminder for you to do that, to be able to do that. And it's such a perfect segue into what I'm going to be talking about, which is the fact that we're limitless. We are so limitless and in order to really tap into that, we must be so. To possibility, to possibility and to potential and recognizing that, you know, society I'm just going to go there. Society really tries to limit us whether it's unconsciously or consciously, because let's be real. Right. And it come can come down to like how much money we can make money for time. I remember thinking like, in order for me to, you know, be super successful on have to me success meant money, which that is not success. It's a whole other it's everything. Right. It's not just money, but to me it was like, yeah, I'm going to be making all this money. I'm going to bet Bubba. But I was like, oh my gosh. I remember thinking I'm going to have to literally never see my family because that's what I saw. Like, that's what we saw in movies. We see in other people, you know, I grew up seeing. My family, they're hard workers. They came to this country from Cuba with nothing. And it was like, you work hard, you show, right? Like you got to show that you're, you're not here to just take, like, you're going to show that you're here to provide or to work hard, to make that money to like, you know what I mean? So they all worked their fricking asses off. Super quote, unquote, successful as per what society says. Right. But like always working, always working. Another thing is eight. Right. Oh, you know, once you start reaching a certain age, you're not going to be able to do this and this and all of this stuff is going to happen to your body and Bubba, Bubba. And I'm like, no, I'm not here for that. I'm fricking going back and looking even younger as I age, like I'm just deciding this I'm actually right now I'm 39. I will be 40 in may. Woo. For may birthdays. I have three children. Like I have the most energy I've ever had in my entire life. I'm the strongest I've ever been in my entire life. Like F that, that around age, screw that. And screw, like not being able to go after our dreams. The older we got, like, we get to decide my mom wrote a cookbook or I think she was like 70 or something like that. Right. And like started a whole new business around that time too. Okay. Age doesn't mean shit. So let's not allow society to tell us. If most of society is doing one thing a certain way, I'm probably doing or thinking the opposite, you feel me on that? Like, no, I'm not here for it. And I'm here to lead and I'm here to tap into, again, my limitlessness and this possibility, if you feel me on this, like I give her like, do a fist pump, do something, right. Get all into it, anchor this shouldn't. So, I mean, I could go into a whole, other thing about. That I'm trying to scare the poop out of us, right? Like cough, cough the past couple of years. Um, but we are deciding that we are not allowing fear to win. We're not allowing fear to win. We are tapping into what is possible for us and how powerful we are, what powerful creators we are of our reality of our reality. Okay. Another thing is like, what happens when we become a mom? Oh, you're supposed to be exhausted. You're supposed to give up everything for everyone and feel guilty if you want to go away by yourself or whatever. It's all a bunch of bullshit. Like I could rant on this for awhile. It's literally why I had a podcast about this before and wrote a book about this is to show and why I show up. Right? Why I show up in this so much? And I'm always sharing. Three kids. I have three kids. I wrote a best-selling book when I was pregnant with my third. I started a business right after my son was born. Right. I didn't wait. I kept going. It doesn't matter. Like we go after our dreams no matter what, and I'm just here to show what's possible. So again, the truth is the truth. Capital T capital R capital U capital T capital H bold underlined stars coming out of it, or lion's coming out of it. We are powerful as fuck. Right? We, women are, we're literally creators. We're creators. We create life. How powerful is that? I always remember that I always tap into it like damn. Right. So again, being so open to possibility and potential, instead of just what is right now. Okay. So examples, like, I feel like fitness is such an easy example, but okay. I know that I'm able to lift this amount of weight right now. I know that I can do X amount of kicks or punches or whatever. I know that I could run this amount of miles, have this amount of money coming in, but I know. I know, like I know that even more is possible that even more is possible. So the next time that I go in to lift some weights, I know that I can lift more. The next time I go in to do some, uh, kicks. I know that I can do more because more is possible. The amount of money that I'm making. It has nothing to do with. I can do more. And it's about being incredibly intentional around living in that possibility and potential. And knowing that what it is is that we just have to align to being the woman that does that. And that's around our beliefs, our actions, obviously the consistency. And it's also being grateful for the now what we have now, but so fricking excited and. And also calm. So it's like this excited. Yes. And this calm of, I know what can be, so give yourself permission to dream. Don't allow the, it will never happen, right. Or any other poopy thoughts to take over? They might show up. It's our brain coming in. I I'm, I'm seeing now. And this is what I see when I think about this, like these little Trojan warriors, trying to come in and be like, stop her, stop her from dreaming. Stop her from thinking about what's possible. Let's just keep her into what she's doing right now, because we know that she is safe right now. She's not going to get her with what she's doing right now, but the moment she starts to think of other bigger things. Oh, we don't know what's going to happen. We don't know if she's going to get emotionally hurt, physically hurt. We don't know. So let's try and stop her. And they start like jabbing you with her, whatever children warriors have. Right. So they're going to come in, but are you going to let them, or you can be like, no, no, no. I'm stronger than you. I got this, I got this, I got this. The moment, the dream, the vision, the desire shows up for you. It's because you literally know that you can have it be it, do it. So again, the moment that a desire, the dream of vision shows up for you, it's because you. You the woman who is in her authentic power knows you can have it be it, do it. I was on a call with a client the other day, and she's like 20 women in like, that's, that's the number of women that I want in this. There's a reason that that number showed up for you honor it, trust it, know that it showed up for a reason. And now the work is just aligning to that being the woman that has this amount of people. And that's it. That's what it's about. So I'm always thinking, okay, I'm just aligning to it. I'm aligning to it. I'm aligning to it. I see the opportunities that show up for me to help me align to it. When I say opportunity doesn't mean rainbows and unicorns. Right. I talk about that in a second. Start to notice how you see things differently. Notice how you see things you've never seen before. And this can be anything like, even little things we'll be driving the same way that we have in the past. I'm like, oh my gosh, I never saw that tree. Or I never saw that house or I never saw whatever. I'm just like, I even celebrate the little things like that because it's so powerful. And I just want to give you a couple examples. So when I decided to go vegan, I E I don't eat any animal products. All of a sudden, all of a sudden I was so aware and I could see foods that I never even knew existed. Like it opened me up to a whole new fricking world of food. It was amazing. It was amazing. I was like, how did I not know it was all there. It's all been there all along. It's literally all been there. All of these foods, they're plants they've been around for like ever. Right. And I just never saw them. I never saw them, but now I could see that. Or when I opened myself up to be abundant, deciding that I'm abundant, that no matter what happens more is always coming in for me, whether that's money, whether that's joy, whether that's like whatever it might be, I'm just opening myself up to it. But in terms of money, I was seeing like new places to go new places that I had never seen before. So it could have been restaurants or better hotels, right. Better fricking cars. So when I opened myself up, I was actually able to see like, we'll look at all of this other stuff that I never saw before that has been here all along, but now I'm seeing it, but I never saw it before. I just think that that's so cool. So there's so much more out there and available to us. And again, it's so cool when we see this. It's so cool. All we see when we allow ourselves to expand. Okay. So I'm. A couple of months ago, or a few months ago, I was at a hotel near Los Angeles for an event. And they were set up outside for this event and they had set up, like there was some food and coffee and stuff, and the server came up. It was just me and another woman that were there before everyone else. He came up. He's like, is there anything else I can get you? And this just flowed out of me. I literally said, well, what can you give me? What. He was like, I don't think anyone has ever said that to him before, but I was straight up like, what do you, what, what do you got? What can you give me? You know what I mean? So it was just so cool. And the other woman that was with me, she's like, yes, yes. And it's like, have this kind of energetic conversation with the universe as. What else is available for me? I am here for it. Show me, hook me up and notice how, when you declare that you want something, how it literally shows up for you, and it could be in very unexpected ways. So don't try and control how it shows. Another part of today that I didn't share is I was driving and I was in a space that I had never gone. And I'm like, damn, I was noticing how all the cars were really, really dirty, just cause the snow and the salt and everything. I was like, I bet you minus. I want to get a carwash. But the carwash that I have is near my house. I wonder if there's an, the same like company around here. I swear, two seconds later I look up and I'm like, are you kidding me? Right there? Right there is the carwash and I go through it and I noticed that in front of me is a fucking Bentley. I'm like, yes. Right. Well, fives, well vibes, well vibes. So just noticing that. And I mean, I literally was like, I felt again, felt my body, all the chills. I was like, yeah. So I see it. I anchor it in, I anchor it and I'm like, let's go for more. Right. So you're unable to see until you see. An often, this comes with going through some stuff. I'm always saying how we are given powerful opportunities and oftentimes they are challenging. It is not rainbows and unicorns. But it's what helps you grow. It's what helps you expand? It's what helps you see how you're holding yourself back and helps you to be the woman who rises through and to have the wisdom to help others. This is the ripple effect. So are you willing to allow in these opportunities? Can you get through. Every time something comes up for me. I tap into this. I know this is not only happening for me, but for others that I will help. I know this happens for me to see things differently, to see the blind spots, to fill a gap, to transform into an embody, a whole new level. To align one of my favorite quotes. And I don't remember exactly who said this. I'm sorry. If anyone knows, let me know if you are not growing, you're dying whoosh. Right? If you are not growing, you're dying. Take it in right. So, this is not for everyone. This is straight up a decision. Like I am so fucking year for it because when I look back, I want to say that I truly lived and I have a powerful story to tell because I went for it. Even when those little children, warriors were trying to keep me from doing it, I went from. I allowed myself to go for it because I trust myself and I know what is possible. I know what is possible when I go for it. I know what is possible. When I allow the opportunities come in and I do this work, I know what's possible. And I refuse to limit myself and I refuse to allow anyone else to limit me. So it can be messy. It can be gooey. It can be funky. And it's awesome. And it's awesome. I've been helping a new client who is growing and expanding like so fast. Holy moly. So fast. And I've been helping her with all of this and it's a whole new level for her watching her go through it. I can feel it. I know it. I have been there. I can see it and I can help her see it. And it's a beautiful freaking thing because sometimes when you're in it, you're like, whoa, what is happening? Especially when it's like happening at this hyper-speed cause your is trying to keep up with what's going on. And it's like taking a breath and calming down and understanding that this is actually what's happening. I'm up leveling and side note, having the guidance and the support from someone who has been there and knows. Awesome. Right. So take some time for you. Get into a vibe and just allow yourself to dream. Just allow yourself to dream. Maybe you go for a drive. Maybe you go for a walk. Maybe it's in the shower. Showers. This happens for me a lot too. Like I just go off and no traffic, maybe like you're getting a massage or a facial or something else. And just allowing yourself to go there to dream knowing that there is a reason for all that comes through for you again, dream knowing that there is a reason for it all coming through for you. And I want you to also intentionally intentionally begin to ask for more, have those energetic conversations with the universe, have those energetic conversations with the universe of like, what else do you got? Right. What else is available for me? I'm here for it. Show me, hook me up. And then lastly, remember that it is so important to surround yourself with other. That like are here for it too. Right. And they're making moves like this and they're not limiting themselves and they're not trying to put their limits and shit on you. Right. The ones that live in possibility and potential. Again, the ones that are here for it's.